Please can I ask all of you experienced dders a simple but daft question? I consider myself to be a grown up, actually quite old:( , normal(ish),sensible, capable woman . So why is it I turn into a gooey mess when my husband of over thirty years calls me a good girl? Its flipping ridiculous how much I am beginning to crave this phrase and how inordinately proud of myself I am when those words pop out of his mouth. What on earth is happening to me?