Thursday, 25 April 2013


 I like doing these memes, he wasn't so keen but he doesn't read my blog so here goes:)

1. He's sitting in front of the T.V., what's on? Criminal Minds or Elementary

2. You're out to eat: what kind of dressing does he get on his salad? Balsamic vinegar

3.The most striking thing about his physical appearance? He is not striking, but to me his goodness shines out.

4.You go out to eat  and have a drink: what does he order? Fish and a real ale

5.Where did he go to high school? One of three in his home town

6.What size shoe does he wear? A UK size 9

7.If he were to collect anything what would it be? Ditchfield Glass

8.What is his favourite type of sandwich? Cheese and onion in white bread

9.What would he eat every day if he could? Something different!

10.What is his favourite cereal? Weetabix

11.What would he never wear? Pink

12.What is his favourite sports team? not really into sport

13.Who did he vote for? He won't tell me but I do know

14.Who is his best friend?ME

15.What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn't? I talk too much(this was the easiest question of all)

16. What is his heritage?100% English

17.You bake him a cake for his birthday; what kind? Lemon Drizzle

18.Did he play sports in High school? Athletics

19.What could he spend hours doing? Photography and messing with his photos on the computer

20.What is one unique talent he has? He is the only one allowed to spank me:))

Monday, 22 April 2013

Treading on Eggshells.

Hi everyone, Before you read this post I will just warn you that it is one big moan, so if you don't want to bother, feel free to find a jollier post like Cat's. Quite frankly I would if I were you. :(

 This week has been pretty horrible. I have read all your blogs, but forgive me I couldn't comment. To be honest I didn't feel like it. Sorry, I know that is rude but I don't feel at all well. I have an ongoing illness, nothing deadly, just something that is never going to go away. At the moment I am in a big flare up, my medication has been upped to the maximum dose. This is the third time of a dosage increase and each time the weight goes piling on. I am crying just writing that sentence and my heart is beating faster with panic.
Over the last three weeks  my poor beloved husband has had to put up with these three distinct personalities:
 crying cat, (this little girl  seems to be the most in attendance actually)  and then now and again:
 and very occasionally:
Ttwd has not exactly disappeared, We are stronger than that but I can't cope, my job is so physical I am wondering how much longer I can do it. I feel like I have aged 10  years in 6 months. Tomorrow is our special day together, our weekend as we both work every weekend and it's also reassurance spanking day. I really want to carry on as normal but how can I expect my husband to spank me.( At least I will reach the crying stage before he needs to get the bleeping paddle out.)
 Who knows which cat he is going to wake up next tomorrow? I have no idea:((. Bless him he is treading on these:
On Wednesday we will have been married for 31 years,  he is everything to me and I hope that he will find the strength to get me through this because I can't do it on my own. 
Thanks for reading if you got this far, I just needed to vent
 Also a big thankyou to Ami Starsong who has listened to my constant whinging on the phone and still wants to meet me!!
lots of love


Monday, 8 April 2013

Please May I Have a Turn?

I couldn't resist a turn at the three word meme :)

1.Where is your cell phone? In the kitchen
2.Boyfriend/girlfriend? kind, lovely husband
3.Hair? Short and Blonde
4.Your mother? Sweet but bonkers
5.Your Father? Bonkers, not sweet
6.Your favourite items? Dancing shoes, kindle
7.Your dream last night? Can't remember one
8.Your favourite drink? Martini and Lemonade
9.Your dream Guy/ Girl? My wonderful husband
10.The room you are in? The sitting room
11.Your fear? Losing my husband
12.What do you want to be in ten years? Spanked and retired
13.Who did you hang out with last night? My magnificent Tabby
14.What are you not? Thin, quiet, rich
15.Are you in love? With my husband
16.One of your wish items? A grand child
17.What time is it? Six thirty two
18.The last thing you did? Had a bath
19.What are you wearing? Nightdress, dressing gown
20.Your favourite book? any Dick Francis
21.The last thing you ate?  Fish and chips
22.Your Life? Happily Married wife
23.Your mood? calm at minute
24.Your friends? whoever's reading this
25.What are you thinking about right now? These hard questions
26.Your car? A silver Kia
27,What are you doing at the moment? This daft quiz!
28.Your summer?  Relaxing at home
29.Your relationship status? Extremely happily married
30What is on your tv screen? six o'clock news
31.When is the last time you laughed? At lunchtime today
32.Last time you cried? My last spanking
33.School? Back next week  

It is harder than you think , hope everyone's happy
love Jan.xx

Friday, 5 April 2013


This post is not actually about anything. Sorry, my life is just jogging along, nothing to report, lots of work for both of us. Not much spanking as I am too busy to be naughty and he is too busy to notice (how much banned substances I am pouring down my throat. NO NO NO it's only chocolate not what you were thinking of!! ) It's been banned by him since Easter :(

 I am thinking of all of you though and my biggest hope for all of you this weekend is a little bit of happiness. If it's spanking you want I hope it is forthcoming, if it's no spanking then I hope it's not forthcoming. I wish for everyone in Blogland what you wish for yourselves. There are a few struggling bloggers at the moment, I am hoping for all of you that this weekend brings a bit of peace and serenity.
Can I also say that through this blogging lark I have made a real life , only a couple of hours away, lovely new friend. I am so excited, we hope to meet, and we really talk to each other, so:

 Hi Ami , I am very very pleased to meet you. If you were here right now I would give you these:
Actually there are a lot of lovely ladies who deserve and or need flowers  about now, Consider these shared with all of you.
Have a great weekend everyone
P.S. Guess what my favourite colour is??? :))))))