I hope you are all well and happy. Now I am sure that many people have written about this very subject but here is my take on it.
Christmas versus Submission!
Christmas is a joyous time ( when it flipping gets here that is!), maybe like this
Okay not like that, I just liked the picture,
perhaps these though
and definitely one of these
Yes, all the good bits, well I could have shown vast amounts of food and alcohol, family celebrations, snow ( if that's where you live and love), lots of joy all around. A few carols and a little (or lot) of Religon thrown in for good measure.
BUT How the bleeping h*** do we get to the above scenarios in a gentle submissive way.
HOW does anybody remain all yes sir, no sir when at Christmas WE have to take charge in order for the joyful bits to happen.?
It seems to me that for the majority of men, Christmas just happens miraculously ( and I actually think that the real miracle was supposed to be something entirely different).
Most men go to work each day whilst many wives are quietly, or maybe even loudly getting the Christmas preparations done. We make decisions at this time of year that maybe at other times we would defer to our men or at least lead them to think we were ( oops did I say that out loud, how unsubmissive of me, good job he doesn't read this blog).
Well I don't think we are not being disobedient but we simply do not have time at the moment to ask.Submission flies out of the window when you are looking after small children, Christmas shopping, (has anyone asked for a budget or have we all just done as we liked .
How many of us have thought just for a fleeting minute,
" I don't care how much I am spending it's Christmas"
By the way how many presents do we have to buy?, bleeping loads that's how many and tell me again how many does the average husband buy?
How much food does that same man rush out to purchase to feed the world and his wife. Umm...
(Maybe he does the booze run if you plead inability to carry it, and he fancies a drink over Christmas).
Also can husbands not write ???? Can I just say Christmas cards!! Mine writes
Relatives coming to stay? What fun, no extra work in that is there?
HATE dislike wrapping , I am hopeless at it, truly hopeless.
Christmas is taking over women's lives everywhere. I am a
fairly very organised person but it is nearly beating me this year and my kids are grown up, returning like little homing pigeons for a few days.
We have all spent how ever long since we started ttwd learning to let go, giving him more dominance, submitting to his wishes and I fear that this is flying out the window.
Have we got time for this lark, there are simply too many decisions to be made, too much to do and really is anyone's husband going to
micromanage help us out?
Isn't it hard to switch from being Superwoman to little Miss Jolly and Submissive when he walks in the door?
What happens when we are tired and snappy after yet another day of the endless run up, I'll tell you what
and from there it is only a hop and a skip to
Hm, maybe that is what I need , how about you?
Actually my preferences aside, I think it is jolly unfair that lots of these are going to be doled out when we are doing our best to make Christmas fabulous for our families. I can't see many of us getting away unscathed between now and Christmas Day.
Maybe December should be declared a submission free month, just a thought.............................
In all honesty in our home, while it is true he only does go shopping for my pressie and he doesn't think to write a Christmas card my John has actually done pretty much everything else with or for me. This is more a general rant than an I blame my husband moan.
Life is pretty good here,we are all set for a family Christmas. I had my scan today and get the results in a week or two. Thanks to all of you who sent me messages, I thought of you when I was laying on that bed today.Love Ya,
Hope you all have a good weekend, may it be spank free or not as you so wish.
P.S. Finally I
haven't have got how to do the crossing out thing. lol