Today is our first blogiversary. I am not sure what I want to say so I have found a few pictures and a few quotes to say a lot of it for me. One thing I do want to say is that I am now, and always have been,( well for thirty odd years):
Yes, definitely yes. Since finding ttwd
I we are even happier than we were when we started on this adventure. As with all of us we have had hurdles to overcome, sickness (boy when he said in sickness and in health I bet he didn't expect, cancer and all the rest he has had to put up with!),
money worries, job stress, family, all the usual. We have however produced wonderful (yes yes I know I am biased but) children who grew into the adults we hoped they would be.
So what now? Is the hard work done? Are we just going to grow old gracefully? Are we heck?
NO, not a chance. I thought it was time to spice things up a little. So in a rash moment, lulled as he was into a false sense of security ( that's after sex in case you were wondering), I sort of suggested he might like to spank me, especially if I was naughty.
He said he didn't know if he could but he said he would think about it. At least he didn't just say no. He did say he didn't think he could hurt me!! Hm, that feeling didn't last long...
A couple of weeks later and I was talking about blogs I had read, and sort of dropping hints about what I thought I might like. Before you say I was controlling the situation, somehow I had to put the ideas in his head in the first place and then hope that maybe he would run with it.
Spanking as fun was, and still is great, but I wanted more, I suppose I am just greedy. I talked about the four D's and eventually we decided to give it a go.
As John has just reminded me," we sort of drifted into it". A new lifestyle began. This was sometime in 2012 , maybe September ish.
I basically follow the four D's and punishments were, and still are few and far between. The fun is often.
What we have discovered is a greater awareness of each other, our bond is strengthened.
We talk more, we love often, we have fun together.
Sometimes I am like this, ( only chubbier).
Yes, sometimes I argue like this. We all know what happens then
What have I learn't from this? I have learn't that good girl spankings are nicer than bad girl ones. the trouble is sometimes I just can't help myself, that naughty girl pops out to play.
I have learn't that I am at my happiest when I am being nice to, and caring for my husband.
I have learn't that while being spanked for a wrong doing is unpleasant, the feelings I get afterwards and the love and care I receive from John soothe my soul.
I have found such happiness in this stage of our marriage and so I think has my husband.
By the way did I mention that
Oh I did, well I am celebrating you know.
Along the way I have discovered many things. here are a few:
In our world we have lots of ways of resolving, usually I am otb!!
I am not sure how far along this journey I am, the love and trust are totally there. The self control and obedience are there in my head, still practicing these two in reality.
This one we have definitely decided on together.
This one I just like (and tell him often),
and the last one is the most important of all,
(Just in case you were wondering!)
Lastly I would like to say to all of you, my Blogland friends, the biggest thank you. I am so grateful for all the support, advice, comments, technical support( Hi Willie and Cat) and friendship as we undertake these adventures together.
Long may it continue.
P.S. At this present moment in time I am waiting for a naughty girl spanking for overspending. Fiddlesticks, and I have been so good ....... All sympathy gratefully received!!