Friday, 28 March 2014

Equals..

Hello everyone, just a quickie to tell of my latest life lesson learned, lol.



          A healthy husband



equals


 a spanked wife.

 Oh yes indeed, there are lots of ways of putting it ,


                                                a hard hand   = a pink posterior,

  
                                          a wooden  walloping          =        a red rear













   rubbished rules   =   the rotten ruler


Get the drift, yep, thought you might. Oh, and so have I.................


Often on the blogs, bloggers much more analytical than me  talk about how dominance feeds submission  and vice versa. There is not really much of either of those in our home as he is not particularly dominant and I am not  at all especially submissive. Don't get me wrong, I do agree with it though, and there are times (albeit few and far between when there is a smidgeon of this hereabouts)

However in our house I think  something else feeds each other,


                                                             Happiness.


When one of us is happy so is the other, always happens, so I am going to try and focus on keeping that in my mind.  Never mind all this submissive lark, I am just going to be aiming for happiness from now on, especially his.




I love this picture, couldn't resist it, this is just how he looked in our youth



  
Hope you are all happy, healthy and still here.


Love Jan.xx

35 comments:

  1. I will go with your approach Jan, the pursuit of happiness works for me :)
    hugs
    DF

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    1. Hi DF, I think maybe after reading your last few posts, you and I have similar minded husbands. We best just enjoy them
      love Jan.xx

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  2. Lovely cute post Jan, I love the pics. The last one is adorable :) Glad it seems your husband is on the mend and happiness is a wonderful goal :) Have a wonderful weekend.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz, thanks, I always loved those cartoons when I was young, he is much better today thanks
      love Jan.xx

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  3. Happiness above all else, that's the most important thing. Great post and I'm glad your husband is feeling better.

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    1. Hi Jennelle, I think sometimes in the race for everything else I lose sight of the simple things , thanks, he is okay now
      love Jan.xx

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  4. very sweet...what better thing to aim for is there than happiness :-) Hugs

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    1. Hi Terps, it is also quite inexpensive as well!!
      have a nice weekend
      love Jan.xx

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  5. So glad things are humming along for you even if you are humming a sore bottom tune.
    Meredith

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    1. Hi Meredith, thanks a lot, yes we are plodding along okay at the moment, hope you are too,
      love Jan,xx

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  6. I agree completely! But tell me, did you often sit naked on a log in your youth?

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    1. Hi PK, no actually we didn't, he just always looked like that little chap!!! naughty, I take it you are with Sunny, causing mayhem?
      love Jan,xx

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  7. I think that making the other person happy because in your heart you want to, that is what it is all about. It all comes from the heart when being submissive and being dominant. It isn't all about punishment but about order and harmony and making one another happy. You are so right about the love.
    And I like PK's question, you should answer it. Lol

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    1. Pk is very naughty, she thinks because she is away from home she can do anything but ... she is returning to Nick soon. I don't think I have ever sat on a log naked though, nowadays I would be more likely to be bent over one !!
      love Jan.xx

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    1. " my husband". Easy peasy, having fun?
      love Jan.xx

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  9. Have you listened to that Happiness song?
    Happiness of our loved ones IS the most important motivator!

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    1. No idea what song you are talking about but happiness is definitely the thing. My girls were so happy today, I was watching them dancing and just felt happy too
      love Jan.xx

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  10. Love this post Jan. everything just clicks when you're happy doesn't it? Or perhaps everything just clicking makes you happy? Who cares, be happy!

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  11. Happiness...grab it, savor it.....enjoy it!!
    Hugs abby

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    1. Hi Abby, hope you enjoyed your visit with the grandchildren, I hope to, I hope you can be happy too
      love Jan.xx

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  12. I so agree with you regarding happiness Jan. Glad to hear your husband is on the mend...sorry that earned you a red and sore bottom. So do you like sitting bare-bottomed on the log? ;)

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat, he is fine, I am fine, the log is fine
      love Jan.xx

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  13. This was sweet Jan. I am so glad to hear hubby is feeling better although I give my condolences to your hiney!

    love
    sara

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  14. Loved this post Jan. Glad to hear hubby is doing better and things are moving forward again, even if you had to pay the price!! Isn't it great when we see our love growing stronger each day just when we thought we couldn't love anymore? That's what helps to keep things interesting.

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    1. Hi Annabelle, everything is well here, I have had a fun spanking since so...
      hope all is well with you
      love Jan.xx

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  15. Glad to hear John is feeling better, Jan. This made me smile for more reasons than you imagine - I sent Dan one of these "Love is..." cards every week for a couple of years when we were "courting", and would you believe he produced them from a secret hiding place when we were moving? He is the most unromantic man I know, yet he saved them all these years.

    I think I would get a tree trunk pattern on my bottom if I sat sans culottes for any length of time on a fallen log, don't know about you? LOL!

    Many hugs
    Ami

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    1. Hi Ami, how sweet he is, bless him. I hope he is better now too
      love Jan.xx

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  17. Love this post Jan. I especially like the picture on the beach because that is what it is really about for me these days. His happiness makes me happy and in turn makes us both better. Glad he is feeling better.

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  18. Jan,

    Could have sworn I'd left a comment.

    Love the post and super pictures. So happy Hubby is better.

    Hope you both have a wonderful Easter.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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