Sunday, 2 March 2014

Sunday Afternoon Thoughts.

Hello everyone,

A lazy Sunday afternoon in the English countryside and I am supposedly blogging. But what to say? I feel a bit blank on the important issues that some people can seem so readily to write about, I don't feel amusing or entertaining either. So I think I will start writing and see what pops out (well, rambles out really).


Do you really want to know I got spanked this morning? (and it jolly well hurt too). he said I needed it, not for anything terrible, just because. Well yes okay, I maybe did need a little spanking, just for fun. However I didn't have to call him a nasty name whilst otb and then earn myself a whole much more unpleasant go round with that bleeping wooden ruler, not to mention that nasty stingy little wooden spoon I suppose. My mouth just ran away with me and now things are a tad uncomfortable in the sitting department :((
 On the plus side he can never remember what I have been naughty for, I cheekily told him he needed to keep a notebook for his short term memory loss. Yes, yes I know that was pretty stupid too, no wonder I can't sit down at the moment.


NO?


 Anyway I think I will write about just what I am thinking about  right now.


                                                                              YOU.


Yes, you, all of you. I was just thinking about everyone and all the friends I have met over the last year or so. I don't actually know many real names, occupations, locations, circumstances...

But what I do know is this:


So I am very glad that you all come out to play. I often find myself thinking about all of you rather than my "real-life" friends. Do we here in this community worry about each other more I wonder, because we cannot just pop round and share a hug or a cup of tea? Or is it because a lot of  the problems we deal with are specific to our treasured lifestyles? I know we all have everyday, normal  life problems and joys too but maybe our methods of dealing with those things are different to an "ordinary" couple. Ttwd/DD is only a tiny part of most of our lives but it does seem to be of such great value to us all.

I know we live ttwd in a gentle less disciplinary way (most of the time anyway ), but I cannot imagine a return to  our former marriage, happy though it was. 
 Perhaps I just am feeling anxious about bloggers with issues and sadnesses  because of my hormones, age, general insanity but I will profess to being tearful sometimes when I read some posts ( often though I find myself giggling my head off). Don't get me wrong I am not complaining in the least, I love Blogland and I choose what I read. I would like to think that these friendships will be long lasting but in reality Bloggers come and go. I just hope that lots of my friends stay for a good long time.




Just for you




Lots of love to everyone, 

Jan.xxx

41 comments:

  1. That was a sweet post Jan. I'm sorry you are sitting a little uncomfortably this morning. I have to agree with you about blogging friends. I think we worry about each other more because we can be so raw and honest with each other. I find myself wanting to seek advice form you all about things I do not feel wholly comfortable talking to ANYone else about. Everyone is so sweet and honest and nonjudgmental, it is refreshing.
    Big hugs,
    Alyssa
    P.s. I hope to be sticking around for a while :-)

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    1. Hi Alyssa, Oh sweetie, ask any of us anything. I am glad you are sticking around, we need more of your stories
      love Jan.

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  2. Oh ouch! Hope you recover quickly Jan.

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    1. Hi Stormy, nice to see you. Actually and oddly I am still tender this morning, very rare for me and I quite like it!!
      love Jan.xx

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  3. That was a very nice post, lovely sentiment.

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    1. HI there, welcome to my blog, thanks very much. Its funny how we can tell each other such important stuff
      love Jan.xx

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  4. This is a such a sweet post, Jan. I wish I could show up in your kitchen for a cup of tea.

    It's so very true: TTWD/dd is such a tiny part of most of our lives but it does seem to be of such great value to us all. Well said.

    There's just something really special about a friendship where we can be so raw with each other.

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    1. Hi Leah, oh I wish you could pop round too. I know when I actually met Ami we couldn't stop talking!
      love Jan.xx

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  5. This touched me so much. In the short time I have joined this group, I feel a sense of belonging and understanding. Perfect strangers reaching out to others, to embrace them, to support them and offer encouragement means so much. My thoughts and emotions this week have been in this same thought. Thanks for sharing.. sorry things are uncomfortable for you this morning but time will improve this for you. I am thinking I am headed the same direction.

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    1. Hi Catherine, welcome to my world. I know , it's odd how we don't know what each other looks like or any real stuff yet we know and worry about each others problems a great deal. I am still tender today :( I hope you escape lol
      love Jan.xx

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  6. I have learned to....most of the time....say certain just to myself.....especially if i am in a 'certain' position. I have no fondness at all for wooden spoons. The last thing i expected when i started blogging, was making friends...not just readers or bloggers....but friends. We do care for each other, and wouldn't it be wonderful to have a bloggers reunion???
    hugs abby

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    1. Hi Abby, omg I hate anything made of wood and I do usually keep my mouth shut, had a blonde moment I think. It would be amazing to meet up with everyone, but as we are all so spread around the world let's pick somewhere sunny!!
      love Jan.xx

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  7. Jan,
    Oh, to have a cup of tea with you! Perhaps we could make a roaring fire and burn that ruler and wooden spoon and Jack's paddle. HA!
    Meredith7006

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    1. Hi Meredith, It would be fab to meet up, even though I am actually a very ordinary girl. I reckon Ami has a log fire we could throw a few bits of woods on. ;)
      love Jan.xx

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  8. Thanks Jan, glad you are here with us. It would be lovely if we could all get together. We really know things about each other that we will probably never know in our real life friends.

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    1. Hi Sunny, oh my goodness, my real life friends would have a fit. Although the other day my best friend was looking at my newly decorated wall ( there are fancy panels of wallpaper on the Vanilla wall now) and she looked straight at the card beside our bed. It said my husband's name at the top and then keep Calm and Spank me underneath. i gave it to him for his birthday and forgot it was there!! Bless her she never said a thing
      love Jan.xx

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  9. I agree Jan. It is wonderful to be who you are with friends in this world. I think someone should write a story about a huge gathering of everyone here! Wow that would be a fun story!
    Sorry your bum is a tad sore!

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    1. Hi Minelle, Good idea, perhaps PK could do it for a fantasy Friday. Still tender today and he pushed me out of bed so early this morning in his sleep that I am first comment on the blogs!!!

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  10. Lovely post Jan...sorry you are sitting a bit uncomfortably. Dang woman...buy ya books and buy ya books and all ya do is eat the pages! In other words...learn from the rest of us...engage brain before engaging mouth when otk! LOL

    Ooh...Minelle has a wonderful idea and we do have some awesome authors here in blogland...maybe one of them will pick up the challenge! :D

    Maybe one day, we will all be able to meet FTF! ;)

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat, I know, I know, I was pretty daft yesterday. I am going to be in trouble again later as my food diary was hopeless and he has written a comment in there about how naughty it was. I am still tender today, That blinking ruler really stung. I wonder what we would think of each other if we really met. Have a good week
      love Jan.xx

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  11. Hey Jan :)

    I'm sorry about your sore behind, but I think you liiiiiiike it lol I know the feeling :)

    I have a question for you, say 10/20 years ago, if you would have heard that a friend or someone other woman you knew was getting spanked by their husband, how would you have reacted ?

    Hugs x

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    1. Hi MIssy, well I don't hate it lol. Well 10 years ago I knew I wanted it so I would have been a teeny bit envious, 20 years ago it probably would have put the idea in my head!
      love Jan.xx

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  12. Jan,

    Hope you sitting more comfortably this morning.

    Lovely post. This is a very special community of friends.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ronnie, am a bit better now thanks. am expecting another go round, and he told me in the cafe we were sitting in this morning, and none too quietly either! I annoyed him with a couple of texts last night when he was working ;)
      love Jan.xx

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  13. I feel as you do, Jan. it is funny...I don't really know these people, but in a way, I know them better than those I mingle with everyday. Blog friends let you into their darkest corners, because there is no judgment or risk. It's a wonderful support, even though I'm still fairly new at it.
    I also get the sentiment of wanting friends to stick around. It is hard to see struggle, sometimes. I think winter is wearing on a lot of folks. Luckily, spring is just weeks away, we hope! Thanks for the post. Hugs, petals x

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    1. Hi Petals, it is odd really but I think like you we don't judge here (much!) and the support is invaluable. It's a bit springlike here today, sun is shining, lovely
      love Jan.xx

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  14. Very sweet post Jan! Well with the exception of the spanking part. Oh wait, you like it ...wink!
    love
    willie

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    1. Hi Willie, sometimes I do, not today, I don't fancy the second round that is iminent. I am hiding upstairs blogging, hope he dozes off in the chair,lol
      love Jan.xx

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  15. It is kind of strange how you start thinking about blog people during the day, lol. Faceless people who help us out on this little journey.

    We had a Sunday morning spanking at our house too. Geesh, something in the air yesterday morning.

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    1. Hi Clara, it is odd how we think about each other, all helping each other in our way. We are about to have a Monday night spanking too:(
      I am on a blinking roll at the minute.
      love Jan.xx

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  16. Jan, I hope the same, and have come to realize how these people have come to mean to me too, and I consider them real friends. Lol yeah, you might have to start watching what you say while he is holding an implement! Lol :). It never ends well for your bottom. ;)

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

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    1. Hi EsMay, I have been quite horrid this last week or so. God knows what is wrong with me. Glad you are my friend
      love Jan.xx

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  17. Thanks for stopping by my blog and I feel you are lucky he gives you good spankings. If you read the blogs, many wives are frustrated that their husbands don't give them the spankings you want. And, yes, we do become friends with many of the bloggers and I've actually met some of them in real life. We actually know bloggers better than many of our vanilla friends because we share things we don't tell our vanilla friends.. And it is sad when some of them leave the blogging world.

    FD

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    1. Hi there, I know i am lucky really :)
      I miss some of the bloggers who were here when I first joined this community, it's a shame some of them feel they have to go
      love Jan.xx

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  18. You called him a nasty name while otb...

    Jan did that?! Jan? My head is spinning. Lol!

    There comes a point when fun, sexy, hot, or resetting, calming, settling...becomes yikes. I hate the feelings of my heart lodged in my throat, stomach roiling, hands shaking and sweating, knees knocking and legs unsteady, head pounding, mouth dry... Ugh. Not even the tiniest smidgen of envy from THIS quarter for your impending round 2. I'll send big hugs, though!

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    1. WE got visitors last night so I am still jolly well waiting and seem to be just compounding my mistakes every damn minute of the day. I am usually so good too lol
      Love Jan.xx

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  19. Don't be too anxious Jan. Those troubles that we all blog about are part of why we are here...we need those who get it and throw in to help us get through it. Friends have come and gone and it has been really hard at times but new ones come. Wonderful post...thanks.

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    1. Hi Susie, glad to see you, I think it is only the odd post that makes me worry or extra sad for someone. It is always sad to lose a friend I suppose but you are right lots of new ones come along
      love Jan.xx

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  20. It is nice to have friends in which you can be true to yourself with. And I personally believe friendships can be forever. Like any relationship it takes work. But it is possible. :-) Hugs

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