Wednesday, 12 November 2014

Happy Love our Lurkers Day!





Hello everyone, and welcome to my corner of Blogland. Today is a great day for all of us as we hope to meet and make new friends,so, are you one of these...



It would be very nice if you would pop out today to say hello.  If you would like to ask any questions feel free. I am a fifty something happily married spanked wife. Our version of this thing we do is  fairly gentle ( unless I am in trouble of course;) There are not masses of rules, just the basic being respectful of each other really. We have been at this spanking malarkey for a couple of years now and in that time we have only grown happier. 

Our children are grown and our nest is empty so we have chosen to focus on each other and spice up our lives. I am not particularly submissive but I do aim to please. He is not particularly dominant but he does take care of and protect me. We have found our own way in this lifestyle and  can highly recommend it to you, my lurking friends.

If you have tried, want to try, need advice , anything really just ask any of us bloggers. We all have a different opinion and someone will be able to help. Come join our community,  if only for today and  see what fun life can be. You are very welcome.

Just to give you an idea of my feelings  here are a few of my favourites....





(Actually sometimes I do ask but....)







                                                                             





                                                                           
                                                                              



Well that's me summed up, how about you? Please come and tell me about yourself, go on,

                                                                    Dare you!!
                                                                                         
 love Jan,xx


                                                                           
                                                           

60 comments:

  1. Lovely post Jan.

    Happy LOL Days. Hope you enjoy your day.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  2. Coo-ee! Just popping my head round the door to say hello. Have a lovely day Jan but leave the biscuits for the visitors!

    Love, Rosie xx

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    1. Hi Rosie, Nice to see you, I have not eaten one biscuit all week!!!
      love Jan,xx

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  3. I love this Jan! We do it our gentle way too! It's good that us older chicks can add spice too!
    What you said about everyone being different, hurray..... Yes!

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    1. Hi Minelle, I do so love your pictures, wish you could get some published, make a lovely book
      love Jan,xx

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    2. Thank You for saying that!
      I still wonder.....

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  4. Awes post Jan, Happy LoL Days! Don't celebrate with too many bikkies :) Love the pics!

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Ugh, damn tablet ... awesome post lol :)

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    2. Hi Roz,I hope everything is going well with you and Rick, enjoy today
      love Jan,xx

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  5. Gentle is us as well. :-) Love visiting here my dancing friend from afar... :-) Hugs

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    1. Hi Terps, gentle is good my friend. I wish we could visit in real life too
      love Jan,xx

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  6. Hi Jan...I really love that first poster..so true. And the man holding the belt is HOT!!
    hugs abby

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    1. Hi Abby, I thought he was hot too!! Hope you have had a good day
      love Jan,xx

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  7. Jan,
    Great post! Love your blog.
    Happy LOL Day :)

    Hugs

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  8. Lovely post, Jan. Wow, one of those pictures is extra raunchy! Golly, Jan! I shall look at you in a completely different light from now on! Happy LOL day!

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. Hey Jan...see what comes from hanging out with Ami...extra raunchy! ROFL

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    2. Hi Ami, I am still the same me, not raunchy at all :(. Wishful thinking
      Hi Cat, I believe Ami and I are hanging out in real soon , I think she might just be worse than me!!
      love Jan,xx

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  9. Love those pix, gal. You already know most of my secrets so I'll just wish you an happy day.

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    1. Hi Sunny, thanks, I hope you pick up a few new readers for your books today
      love Jan,xx

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  10. Happy LOL Day Jan! I love post and your word Marlarky! And what awesome inspirational posters too - especially the first one....sigh. ;)
    hugs,
    Cali

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    1. Hi Cali, That first poster sums it all up really. I am not sure what the equivalent of malarkey is for you but it describes our antics perfectly
      love Jan,xx

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  11. Hi Jan, Happy LOL Day! Lovely post and lovely pictures. The 'good laughs' one is my favourite.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Hi Nina, hope you are having a good day too
      love Jan,xx

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  12. Good morning, Jan
    How about a cup of tea and a biscuit? Happy LOL to you!
    Meredith

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    1. Hi Meredith, I am having a biscuit free week!!! It's nearly killing me :(
      Hope you have a nice day too
      love Jan,xx

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  13. Happy LOL Day Jan...lovely post and pics! BTW...have you been dipping into my stack of pics? *snicker* So happy you decided to join our family. ;)

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat, thank you, I am glad I joined in , it's nearly two years now, I love this day
      love Jan,xx

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  14. Hi Jan,

    Thanks for joining us for LoL 9. I love your pictures!

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Hi Hermione, you are an absolute star to keep this going, it's just one big get together, great :)
      Thank you, love Jan,xx

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  15. Hi Jan,
    I am with you...a gentle (or sometimes not) spanking keeps the world going round. I love the last picture, it could almost be my two monsters

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    1. Hi Don and welcome to my little world,
      love Jan,xx

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  16. You and I do have so much in common. I know some will come out of the shadows today and hopefully some will really decide to join us.

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    1. Hi PK, hope that love our lurkers day brings you lots of new readers of your books
      love Jan,xx

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    1. Hi there, you are always welcome to lurk and or comment here
      love Jan,xx

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  18. I wish you continued success on your lovely blog... Xoxo

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    1. Hello to you too and thanks for visiting today
      love Jan,xx

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  19. Happy LOL day to you and thanks for stopping by my blog.

    FD

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    1. Hi FD, I often pop in for a lurk! Hope you have had lots of lurkers over the last couple of days.
      love Jan,xx

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    1. Hi Rogue, hope things are going well for you,
      lots of love Jan,xx

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  21. Happy LOL Day to you, Jan!! I always enjoy stopping by here to read! Rob and I are definitely similar to you two in our practice of dd/ttwd/twist of D/s. We have always just kind of "winged it"! Pretty great territory to be exploring in our 50's, isn't it? What wonderful and unique loving!! All quite unexpected really! Hurrah for us all! ;) Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. Hi Katie, I do think we have a similar sort of attitude to ttwd, It's really nice to speak to others who feel like we do. Sometimes I read a blog and feel hopelessly out of my depth and sad for the writers!
      love Jan,xx

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  22. I have to admit I laughed at "this spanking malarkey." Happy LOL Day!

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    1. Hi Dana, well it is all a bit of fun if we are doing it right isn't it?
      love Jan,xx

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  23. Lovely post, thank you for being here and sharing.
    Janey x

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    1. Hi Janey, I hope you have had lots of lurkers today!
      love Jan,xx

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  24. Loved this post. Thank you for the words of advice.

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    1. Hi Meg, welcome to my corner of Blogland, please come anytime
      love Jan,xx

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  25. Hi Jan
    Thanks for the welcome! I'm an English lurker so very much enjoy all your cultural references! I'm going to keep this short as I wrote a long comment that didn't stick. Here's hoping....

    Blackbird

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    1. Hi Blackbird, so nice to meet a fellow English girl, please come again!
      love Jan,xx

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  26. Ah good!

    Will keep on coming by and saying things. :-)

    BB

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  27. A day late but still making the rounds of the blogs I read. Thank you for yours and that attitude/belt pix made me wet. And here I sit at work. Thanks especially for that photo. It's great. Jackie was here. :-)

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    1. Hi Jackie, it's just that sort of picture isn't it? How can you surf the blogs at work!!!nice to meet you
      love Jan,xx

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