Tuesday, 18 November 2014

The Attitude Adjuster :(

 Hello everyone,

Not a great weekend has just passed in the Rose household. I  have been a bit difficult according to the power that is absolute...




My Lord and Master has not been happy with my attitude over the last few days  and today this  was made quite clear. First of all I got this face..




and then this chap appeared....



Okay, well not exactly him but it might as well have been, the sentiments were all there. I can't help  it ( well actually I can help it and I am jolly well going to from now on according to the powers that be :(     ) life is difficult at the moment and I have been letting things get to me, things that you all really don't want to know about. For one thing you might all realise that I am a top class pain and I would like you all to remain in blissful ignorance of the less admirable qualities in my nature. 



I thought we were going to have a relatively pleasant morning Christmas shopping  but my beloved had a few other ideas first. I  was soon put in my place ( over the damn pillows !) and a swift return to my usually (!) sunny nature was assured with the help of a few tools of his trade.

 A hard hand spanking quickly  began (is it just me or do their hands really get harder the longer we are at this thing?),  an extremely nasty bit of leather and a few various bits of wood soon followed to ensure a wriggling, squirming, squealing, but very apologetic and sweet natured wife  was back in evidence for the rest of the day.



" Never fear my sweet, I am always here and am not putting up with any more of that! I have plenty of tools at my disposal to soon sort your attitude out. it ends now and need not return in a hurry"


I've got it :(   Truly.....

Life is hard but I am grateful to this wonderful chap of mine.



This is true, very true  and when things are going badly I have learn't that he is always there to lean on and won't let me struggle alone







I am very grateful to have got my husband by my side or indeed behind me with a paddle in his hand  in times of need.




I hope you are all in a good place today, I know I am a lucky girl, albeit a tender one!

love Jan,xx

34 comments:

  1. Amazing how quickly the little and sometimes big stressors disappear while "assuming the position" and what follows. The getting to the better mood is always a little tough but being in that soft spot again is so worth the tender tush!

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    1. Hi Clara, you are absolutely right!!Hope you are doing well
      love Jan,xx

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  2. Hi Jan, I am sorry that the attitude adjuster has made an appearance. Hey, the less admirable qualities are useful too, sometimes, though I am sure they are not usable on the powers that be. But even though I feel for you, I can only agree with what you wrote towards the end, because your husband was there for you and I simply love these moments, when this becomes obvious. So, sorry for the tender bottom, but I am very happy for you having your husband who is there for you when you struggle.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Hi Nina, I think it was probably about time for an appearance really! I am lucky to have him though :)
      love Jan,xx

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  3. I agree with Nina. There is such a feeling of comfort in knowing your man will catch you and hold the line. My T spanks very hard, so I can never be glad about THAT bit, but ah.... afterwards.... is such a relief. And, the knowing generally that there is a line that musn't be crossed. Not doing too well on that front myself as T is quite ill so I'm taunting him a little that he is too weak to spank me. Dangerous!!
    So glad you are back to your happy place, Jan.
    BB

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    1. I am so sorry that your other half is poorly, taunting him is maybe unwise though, after all he might soon be better!
      love Jan,xx

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  4. Jan,
    It seems attitude adjustments can easily happen on both sides of the pond. Hohs know how to get things back in order.... painful, then sweet very quickly! Right?
    Meredith

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    1. Hi Meredith, I think those adjustments can happen anywhere, no matter what we think!! Yes we are good now
      love Jan,xx

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  5. Ohhh yes, I know all about those at the moment and sadly sometimes one adjustment is not enough it seems!
    Is there something in the air do you think?

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    1. Hi Janey, oh no thank you very much ,one was all that was needed here!!
      I reckon it is all that cold seaside air causing it!
      love Jan,xx

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  6. Hugs Jan, we all have those moments, and they are not fun! Glad he was able to stop the spiral. and you're now more settled and secure now. I'm sorry there are some difficult things going on for you right now, but I'm so glad your husband is there to catch you.
    I agree with Janey, something must be in the air, or many it's just the holiday season and all the stress that comes with it. Hope you have a great rest of the week!

    Hugs

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    1. Hi Jennelle, We are fine now. I don't actually think it is Christmas causing it. Most of my shopping is done and we are going to a log lodge with our family for a few days. It's so exciting. I think it is everything else that is winding me up!!
      love Jan,x

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    1. Hi Sunny, thanks, all is well here today. Hope you and Ray are good
      love Jan,xx

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  8. If only you were as perfect as I am … grrrrrrr. I like that he is so loving and willing and observant. I get in moods too but Nick never seems to notice. I'm sending pillows and good wishes. You're a lucky girl.

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    1. Hi PK, I think he noticed because I was annoying him so much, I do know I am lucky though even if a bit tender!
      love Jan,xx

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  9. Strangely i am sitting on a sore bottom today also...and every time i sit...i smile.
    The holidays are looming along with lots of stress...hang in there.
    hugs abby

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    1. Hi Abby, oh I don't think that my chap is in the same league as yours. I would never cope with what your Master dishes out!!
      love Jan,xx

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  10. Happy you have been sorted out Jan...even if it was a bit on the painful side. Hope everything stays positive. ;)

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat, we are all okay now. I hope that your SiL is getting better now
      love Jan,xx

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  11. What matters most is that it helped both of you. I'm glad!

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    1. Hi Minelle, thanks sweetie, He feels better after getting it out of his system and I just feel better!!
      love Jan,xx

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  12. Hi Jan, I'm sorry the attitude adjuster made an appearance, they are definitely not fun! I'm glad it did the trick though and that your husband is there to lean on. Sending positive thoughts that life eases for you soon.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz, Thanks. there a couple of things that won;t improve really, it's more a case of learning to live with them, hard sometimes :(
      Never mind, could be worse
      love Jan.xx

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  13. You have such an interesting blog. Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed reading your posts. All the best for your future blogging journey.

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    1. Hello and welcome to my blog, Hope to see you agin
      love Jan,xx

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  14. I know the attitude adjuster will be appearing here soon. Happy it worked out for you.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ronnie, you having a hard time then? Hope it sorts you out too!
      love Jan,xx

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  15. Oh goodness. Just the way you shared this made me laugh. Not of course because your backside paid the price, just the humor that went along with the story. Thank goodness we all have attitude adjustors fully capable of bringing about chane when necessary. Their arsenal of tools are mighty persuasive if one cares to be stubborn. Good thing they are there to set things right once again. Let's hope the rest of the holiday season is smooth sailing.:-)

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    1. Hi Annabelle, so glad you find my predicament amusing, I live to serve!! lol. I think the holidays will be fine, we just have to get there though don't we?
      love Jan,xx

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  16. I am glad you have each other to lean on... Hugs

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    1. Hi Terps, Thanks, he is great to lean on!
      love Jan,xx

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  17. Wow Jan, he used the whole arsenal! Bet you had a glowing rear view!

    And re the hardness of the hands - I thoroughly agree. I should just love to know why the hands feel harder and harder as time passes? If you ever find out, please let me know.

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. Hi Ami, I think it's because they have got braver :(
      I have driven us both bonkers today so I imagine I am in for another dose too :(
      love Jan,xx

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