Tuesday, 3 March 2015

Any Questions??


Hello everyone,





Here comes March and along with it come mad march hares and blowing winds, or so they say. We do have the winds, can't say I have noticed any hares hopping around as yet....


Here in Blogland March brings something else, so this is your time to




Ask what ever you wish and I will try and answer ;).

 Come on, this is your chance to delve a bit deeper so start talking and so will I..

Hope you are all having a good week and a great start to the month.

love Jan, xx

40 comments:

  1. What brought about TTWD in your lives - did it stem from a particular need or problem?
    Is there anything you've not been spanked with you'd like to try?
    hugs
    DF

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    1. Hi DF, my husband has just said it was his wife's desperation for some entertainment!! cheeky so and so. I have always read books like this and eventually just blurted out that I wanted him to spank me. Hey ho we went from there!
      A feather sounds good to me. he said he fancies a go with a carpet beater :(
      love Jan,xx

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  2. When I think of one I'll get back to you. LOL

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    1. lol Sunny
      I can never think of things to ask either
      love Jan,xx

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  3. two questions? Do you ever have a time that you disagree with the punishment or fight getting spanked? (I know everyone writes that they agreed to the lifestyle, but we're still human and know it hurts).
    Are there times when you've earned a spanking, but your husband knows that stresses going on around the family are very high and he may do something else: hold you, insist on a sit down talk, or even initiate sex?

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    1. Hi Kate, not generally but we did have one spanking that went wrong. it came about from a misunderstanding, I blogged about it ages ago. I didn't crack at all and we knew straightaway it was not the right thing. Resolved it almost instantly and it didn't hold us back any.
      To be honest I don't do much to earn spankings, round here it's all about making life more fun, He wouldn't spank regardless though, if I wasn't in the zone he would be more likely to cuddle me
      love Jan,xx

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  4. Golly. I think we have discussed most things already. What can I ask you?

    Okay. Is there any one thing that leads to more spankings than anything else, or do you find that the majority of your spankings are fun ones, with a bit of harder excitement attached?

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. Hi Ami, He is sitting here and so I have just asked him. he replied that I get spanked because I like it! I suppose being cheeky comes into play mostly. real offences are rarely repeated, I don't actually want to be a pain in the a**, and I do want to please him
      I bet your answer to this would be attitude (lol)
      love Jan,xx

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  5. Hi Jan,

    I can never think of any good questions.

    If you had to choose between giving up spanking and sex for a month, which which you choose?
    What's your favourite Spring flower?

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ronnie, no question I would give up sex rather than spanking!
      My favourite spring flowers are daffodils.
      love Jan,xx

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    2. Thanks for answering Jan. Daffs are my favourite as well.

      Love,
      Ronnie
      xx

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  6. Hmmmm......still pondering Ronnie's question..tough choice LOL.
    Still thinking on a question..
    hugs abby

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  7. Hi Jan, wow, so many awesome questions, wonderful and I love your answers! My questions are not really about ttwd ...

    I have seen some age references in different posts of yours, but what age do you feel like at the moment and why (does becoming a grandma have an influence?)?

    How would your friends describe you? :)

    What is your best/favourite childhood memory?

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Hi Nina, great questions.
      I feel my age (55), am loving it. I am in a really good place at the moment too. Being a grandma just seems the icing on the cake, I don't feel older than I am.
      My friends would describe me as smiling.
      My best childhood memory doesn't involve my family, some friends of my parents took me dancing one evening to keep their daughter company( we were friends already) and it totally changed my life. I am now a dance teacher so...

      hug to Tilda
      love Jan,xx

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  8. Hey Jan...Other thank sex, spanking and being cheeky, what is your favorite hobby and why? :)

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat, well dancing has always been it all, work and hobby but nowadays reading tops my list. I read every spare moment I get
      love Jan,xx

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  9. Hi Jan,

    I loved John's answer to why you get spanked :)

    If you could vacation anywhere, where would it be?

    What is your favourite implement?

    What is your favourite movie?

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz, I am not a good holiday maker. i think I would like to go to Hawaii but I would probably want to come straight home again as that is my usual tactic.
      My favourite implement is a pink silicon spoon:)
      My favourite film is The Sound of Music, a childhood favourite
      love Jan,xx

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  10. Since you have your son and his girlfriend at home with you..... Do you worry they have heard.... Or will hear you getting spanked?
    Lol.... Even though you are laughing!

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    1. Hi Minelle, they have seen me being swatted plenty of times and I have seen my son do it to his girlfriend too. Most of our spankings are done when we know they are at work or at her parents so so far so good. Yesterday they have had an offer accepted on a house of their own ( five minutes walk away!) so our nest will soon be empty
      love Jan,xx

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  11. Jan,
    I am a little late to the party.........
    If you ruled the world, what name would you give that new grand baby that is not even here yet ?
    Meredith

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    1. Oh Meredith that is a hard question and I definitely wont get a say in this one! I suppose I would like a real girly name like Annabelle or Emily and for a boy maybe George or Alexander. Won't be any of those though,lol
      love Jan,xx

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  12. Jan,
    How long did it take you till you felt like you were in a groove with ttwd and it did not feel awkward anymore?
    Megan

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    1. Hi Megan, I think it is an ever changing process really. But I suppose by the end of the first year it had become automatic and we are very easy with each other, no secrets, and we pretty much know each others expectations now
      love Jan, xx

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  13. Hi Jan,
    I don't really have a question that hasn't been asked I don't think. I enjoyed reading the others. What kind of dance do you like? What kind do you teach? I have always wanted to take a couples dance class, but Zach has never been for it. I had to smile when I saw your choice of girls names. My daughter's name is Emily. I have loved the name since I was a little girl. I used to think if I could change my name that is what I would have chosen. I'm like you with vacations, if it is not to go visit family then I am quite content staying home.
    Lots of love,
    Alyssa

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    1. Hi Alyssa, hope your little girl is getting on well, I love her name, it is what I would have called one of mine had they been a girl!
      I teach ballroom and Latin american dance, have danced since I was 13. I can do a bit of burlesque too ;)
      love Jan,xx

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    2. She is doing well. Growing fast and teething. I wish I had the rhythm to dance. Burlesque huh? I bet your hubby loves that ;-)

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  14. First time to comment, been a lurker. Are you northern or a southern?

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    1. Hi Anna, welcome here, I come from the East of England, love it!
      love Jan,xx

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  15. What is your favorite implement? What is hubby's favorite implement?

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    1. Hi Clara, we ahvea pink silicon spoon I like and hubby's hand of course. His is a long wooden ruler, likes the snap of it!
      love Jan,xx

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  16. Hello Jan :)

    I would like to know what your favorite date night looks like?

    Favorite dessert?

    Hugs

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    1. Hi Jennelle, favourite date night is dinner with hubby, then home for some fun ;)
      Favourite dessert raspberry pavlova
      love Jan,xx

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  17. Hey Jan... most of us are in this lifestyle because we recognize the benefits it provides. Do you ever suddenly feel like you have gone crazy and shouldn't do this anymore even though you would miss it? How do you feel this lifestyle helps you the most?

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    1. Hi Annabelle, not for a single second, I couldn't give a toot for the rest of the world and if I am crazy, I don't mind! I don't know if it helps anything but we are simply happy, :)
      Love Jan,xx

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  18. DO you think life would be easier if, those of us in ttwd, did not have to use anonymity within our blogs?

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  19. I think life would be easier if there was not so much disapproval around this way of life in general!
    love Jan,xx

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