Hello my friends,
My posts are generally fluffy or whiny, presumably because that is my general make up, lol.
Today I am writing about an actual subject that appears in our lifestyle. Okay it only happens to a few of us and often not very frequently but still....
A couple of days ago one of my lovely blogger friends emailed me with a dilemma. Her and her husband lead a similar lifestyle to my husband and myself, so mostly fun and games with the odd bit of punishment creeping in.
For some reason her husband planned a reset for later that day and told her to be in the corner waiting when he got home. This had not happened to her before and I believe she instinctively refused as she didn't feel this was something she could do. Then in her misguided innocence she turned to me for advice.
At this point I need to say I am sorry because I didn't get the email until AFTER the event so was no help at all. I was otherwise occupied all day and when I read the message and started frantically typing I realized she was probably mid -spanking.
Yes,my friends, a word of advice don't ask me as I will probably be off gallivanting.
My dear friend wanted to know what I would have done and how did I deal with corner time.
I think we all deal with this differently , I actually like it!!
Yes I know, I never claimed to be normal but I find it helps me sink into a submissive head space.
I love how he is in charge, I love to be ordered how to stand and know that he is keeping an eye on me, He never makes me stand there for long though and I am sometimes clothed, sometimes not. For me up till now it has always been before a spanking and not after so I will admit my experiences are pretty mild. If he is really cross I do have to watch myself, no slouching or fidgeting ;)
My advice was to grin and bear it. I advised my friend to be there in the corner ready and waiting. After all it goes part way to keeping him happy and therefore avoiding a worse spanking. It is an easy thing to do to keep hubby happy, if he likes it I like it. Did I mention how simple I am?
After the event my friend emailed me to say she did do it in the end and I think I was as glad as her husband !!
So what I would like to know is how do you all deal with the dreaded corner?
Do you love it or hate it?
Does it happen often in your house or is it a rare event?
Anyone escaped it altogether?
Any Hohs care to tell us why they like to put us there?
Okay, here comes the bit that makes you all laugh, different subject entirely.
Back to slimming world and a pound and a half loss this week. During the "chatty bit" everyone seemed to be struggling and lots of people asked for help and tips.
When it got to me I said what helped me the most was writing it all down in my book and then my mouth ran away with me...
( At this point you need to imagine the scene, a room full of chubby women, and daughter in law sat right beside me . )
"I write everything I have eaten down in a notebook " I stated , "and then when my husband gets home from work he comments on it and gives me rewards and consequences!"
Yes folks I actually said it out loud and then to add to my foot in mouth dil said,
"Oh yes I have seen that book, he writes things like good girl and naughty girl amongst other stuff!"
My heart actually stopped beating.... She wouldn't would she?.........
Thankfully every one laughed at this point and I nudged her in the ribs with a blushing face.
Our lovely consultant then laughingly said
"Oh gosh I don't think we better ask anymore " but she did go on to say that it was a good idea to have someone holding us accountable and she said that obviously praise is a good motivator.
I didn't mention that spanking was a better one, felt I had outed myself enough for one day!!
Hope you are all having a good week, in or out of the corner, and in or outing yourself to the world around you, lol
Lots of love