Wednesday, 28 December 2016

Happy New Year!

Hello everyone,

Happy New Year to all of you, may you have some fun-filled celebrations .

Here's hoping that 2017 is a very happy one for all of you, my special Blogland chums.

Let's hope the celebrations look like this ;)

It may just lead to this, lol

Happy New Year!!

lots of love

Jan and John, 

Friday, 23 December 2016

Merry Christmas Blogland!

Hello everyone,

Yes, here it comes again.

 How true!

Would that I looked like that whilst decorating the tree.

How nice to be this laid back at this time of year

So whether you are celebrating in the sunshine or

frolicking in the snow,

We hope you all have a very Happy Christmas and a Happy New year.

Just saying.....

with love 

Jan and John,

Saturday, 17 December 2016

Wussier Than Ronnie!

Hello everyone,

A few days ago Ronnie posted a picture of P.'s favourite Christmas paddle

And she is very welcome to it I might add!

I thought I would post a picture of my husband's contribution to the Christmas spanking festivities

Very festive!!

Do you think he has too much time on his hands now he is retired? lol.

Christmas? Bring it on!!

So what is your favourite Christmas toy?

Hope you all have a great weekend and a smooth run up to the main event. We are off to visit our little Christmas angel for a few days, :)) (if there is room in the car once the pressies are packed....)

Love Jan,

Thursday, 15 December 2016

Happy Birthday PK!

Hello everyone,

A very special person in Blogland is celebrating today,

Happy Birthday PK, 

Hope you have a lovely day with one of these

Also of course we are glad to hear this news

Hope you have a great retirement, doing everything you always wanted to,

with lots and lots of love,

Jan and John, xxx

Thursday, 8 December 2016

Naughty or Nice!

Hello everyone,

It's that time of year again.

 A time of fun and joy and family and love and well, you know, all the good things.

It is also a  time of great stress, irritability, tiredness and not enough hours in the day!

In Blogland it is also the one time of year that a spanked wife is almost guaranteed to be......


 We can never seem to avoid it, doesn't matter how hard we try. Christmas gets in the blinking way of being good. 

For me this year's preparations are much easier as we are retired for the first Christmas. Still I am managing to be a pain in his a**, which in turn becomes a pain in mine! The thing about  retirement is, he is always around, He knows how much I am spending, he is being dragged round the shops (or coming to keep an eye on me ). 

 My husband is spanking when he feels like it , not of course due to any  Christmas behaviour of mine. Lol ;) It does seem that he is in the mood fairly frequently at this time of year, funny that...

How about the rest of you? How's it going out there?

I would rather be naughty I think, it is so much more interesting.
And I have got to give him something to do over this festive period.

Just a cutie....

Grandbaby, who now is one of these

(Our own little Christmas angel), 

is having her own version of Christmas. Son and dil have put up a beautiful Christmas tree, just like this

The thing is,bless her little heart she thinks it is called a

"Mustn't Touch"!!

 Oh yes she really is as sweet as can be.

I hope you all are having a great week and a lovely leisurely run up to the holiday season.

Much love,

Jan, xx


Sunday, 27 November 2016

LIlli's meme - Ask the Husband!

Hello every one, Liked Lilli's answers so much thought we would have a go.

1.What is something I always say?

Just saying.....(true)

2.What makes me happy?

Shopping,lol  (in actual fact it is him who make me happy above all else)

3.What makes me sad?

Seeing all our oldies in the nursing home (True, it is  source of great sadness to me to see them all suffering)

4. How tall am I?

5ft 6      ( nope 5ft 5)

5. What is my favourite thing to do?

Read ( :)   )

6.What do I do when you are not around?

Read  ( oh yes)

7.If I became famous what would it be for?

Dancing ( unlikely at this stage, to be fair)

8.What makes you proud of me?

My dedication to my mother and his parents.     ( how sweet of him)

9.What is my favourite food?

Toast  (sad but true)

10.What is my favourite restaurant?

Haven't got one ( toast is okay most places to be fair, lol)

11.Where is my favourite place to visit ?

Anywhere grandbaby is. ( Obvious and didn't even have to think about that one)

12.If I could go anywhere, where would it be?

Hawaii. ( I would love to go there but it is so far away...)

13.How do I annoy you?

Nagging.    ( Yes, but really I thought he would have a list as long as your arm here so this is being let off lightly)

14.What is my favourite film?

The Sound of Music ( whose isn't?)

15.You get a phone call that I am in trouble, who will I be with?  

My best real life chum S. ( her fault, she is a leader, lol)

Hope you all do this meme too, thanks Lilli.

Love Jan, xx      

Thursday, 24 November 2016

Happy Thanksgiving!

Hello everyone,

Hope you all have a great time with your family and friends. 

 Lots of fun

 a bit of this ;)

Add in a party and 


 Jan and John,

Sunday, 20 November 2016

Thank you and Discoveries...

Hello everyone,

Yep, I am all partied out!

What a great couple of days in Blogland.

I just want to say to all my visitors old and new

It was great to meet you.

I made a few discoveries throughout this party too.

Firstly there are a lot more English  Bloggers than I thought.


However there are very few Australians 


Sorry Lindy, you appear to be going it alone, no matter how hard we tried.

The most important thing I discovered was that out here in Blogland we know how to party.

(Jz, are you there?)

The biggest thank you goes to Hermione for organising this grand old shindig and to Bonnie for creating it in the first place eleven years ago!

Hope you all have a great week, recovering.

This is one tired kitty saying goodnight.

 Mind you it is a spanking blog so......

 Bye all, see you soon
love Jan, xxx

Friday, 18 November 2016

Lurkers to Friends at a Click!

Hello everyone and welcome to my Blog on this very special day in Blogland.

I am a fifty something happily married wife.  We live in England and are both retired. I have been married to  the love of my life for almost thirty five years and for the last four years or so we have practised our version of ttwd. As you are reading here I am guessing you either do , have done, or want to do, a similar sort of thing. I say similar as there are many different varieties of this lifestyle and I firmly believe that no couple does ttwd the same as another.

To sum it up for us, we are gentle ttwd'ers! I'm fairly good ( truly), he spanks for fun and frolics (mostly, although he has been known to use his developing skills to rein me in on occasion ). There are few rules and the ones in place are generally speaking not ones I wish to disobey anyway, hence most of what happens here is fun.

 We have had our ups and downs, as with most of us out here it is very hard to marry someone and then goodness knows how many years later you suddenly spring on them your burning desire to be spanked! 

 Say What!!!
 How hard that must be for an unsuspecting partner, and then the relentless search for a meeting of minds, and hand to bottom!

 It is no surprise that out here in Blogland friendships are forged , there is a need for advice, for listening and understanding and for acceptance. I count myself lucky to have found all of the above out here and with the gift of these we have managed to find a path through this lifestyle. 

Occasionally I have found myself in a wee bit of trouble, I once told hubby to

"Shut up and do as you are told!"

Guess what that led to

Yep, you've got it. In my defence (weak though it was) I was tipsy. Didn't stop the spanking being one for the record books the next morning.

On a general basis though it's more like this,  especially as I seem to want to please him more and more. I love fussing over him, even if it drives him mad at times. I love being 

My favourite phrase ever.....


Yes, there is a bit of this

A little bit of this ;)

And lots of this!!!

Now of course today is not about us so:

How about you?

Are you one of these?

I am pretty sure I have a few lovely lurkers out there so today I would like to say how nice it would be to meet you and find out a little bit about your lives for a change.   I am not asking for a big reveal, just a titbit, any thing you care to share. Please come out to play and say hello.

 In return ,

Ask away........

Who knows, you might make some new friends today,  I know over the last few years I certainly have, real life  friends too not just ones at the end of the button.
To visit some of my chum's blogs just click on the title of the Blogs you fancy having a peak at on my Blogroll. A big thank you must go to Hermione ( Hermione's Heart) for organising today too. I suggest you start with her blog and she will guide you to the rest of today's participants.

 We are all very lucky to have found each other, this lifestyle is not for the fainthearted. We are a community that pulls together in times of need, helps each other with advice and teases each other in times of spanking, lol. So today get brave, put on your party hat and come and join us  as we have a two day binge of friendship and nosiness out here in Blogland.

Glass of Bubbly anyone?
After all it is quite a trek, around Blogland in a couple of days, I do find I need a bit of something to wet my whistle.

Hope you have a great couple of days,

love Jan, xxxxx

Sunday, 13 November 2016

Thoughts for Roz. Update!

Hello every one,

Below is the post I wrote when I heard that Roz had been affected by the Earthquake near her home. Thank you so much for your wonderful support. Roz has posted herself today and is pleased to say that things are settling down a little. I wanted to say how great Blogland is, there for each other in the good times and the bad.

P.S.Don't forget it Love our Lurkers this Friday and Saturday!

                                                                    See you there!

                                                                           Jan, xx

This has been a very unsettled week in the news and now our thoughts turn to another Country hit by disaster. A natural one this time, not one of man's own making.

One of our Blogland sisters lives in New Zealand and today this country  has been hit by nasty Earthquakes..


I am not making light of this (Roz loves cats as much as I do). A small smile in a bad day.

I have been in email contact with Roz and  she is safe, scared but safe.  She doesn't live in the Epicentre of the Earthquake but the effects have been felt by all and her area has been affected as most of New Zealand has. While her home remains undamaged I believe work is affected.

Roz and Rick, 

  This is a time for Blogland to say a few prayers and send our love to one of our best loved friends.

Stay safe Roz, we are thinking of you and all your fellow bloggers in New Zealand today
Love Jan and John, xxx

Tuesday, 8 November 2016

"A Free Spanking!"

Hello everyone,

I know it is early but we have been Christmas shopping. I love the shopping bit, the choosing things for my special family and friends. Ooh, and a grandgirl is the yummiest person to buy for, and  there seems to be no limit to the things you can buy with Peppa Pig on!!

I absolutely hate wrapping things up though, all my parcels look like they have been dragged through a hedge backwards. Unless it is square you have had it as far a gorgeous present goes :(

Anyway I digress, the point of this ramble is to tell you how I managed to get an unneeded, unwanted and unloved  freebie.
We were shopping together, remember this is our first year of retirement so hubby is with me a lot more often than not. (I am sure by next year his enthusiasm will have worn off, but hey it is very handy having him there for carrying and chauffeuring and of course I am like the Queen now in that I never carry any money.
Anyway I wanted two gifts from a particular store, easy peasy I hear you cry. Well yes it was , once I had finished faffing about and deciding which to choose I said I was done.  Quite clearly I took too long as it gave hubby time to wander on his own.

"Hang on " he said, "There is a buy two gifts get a third free offer in here"

"I don't actually need anymore, I can't just ..." Then I caught sight of his face, recognise this look anyone?

"Oh good, I have found something I want",  he chuckled and then grinning he held up his choice :(

 He  was so pleased with himself when he stated: 

" Doesn't even have to be locked away in the toy box, just looks normal, can sit right there on the table, so handy, and a free gift too. Even better!"

Do you know something else? I don't even have to wait until Christmas for this oh so lovely gift. :(

I think maybe I will finish the shopping by myself after all, it will be less painful , lol.

I bet when I started you thought I was going to get spanked for overspending didn't you? No I didn't have to do a thing, he is just a sneaky opportunist in my opinion ;)

Somehow this picture sums it all up. I am assuming he is on the left ( I am no bird expert so this is probably wrong, humour me) and some how he just looks like he has had an in charge moment, looking down on her all stern and bossy like, in our case that would definitely be a spanking and she looks all snuggly and submissive to me. I just loved it.
Well that's how it is in the Rose household anyway.

Hope you are all having a good week and if you live across the pond may the right person get in tonight. It looks scary from over here so goodness knows what it is like over there.

Much love