As I appear to have a lot of lazy time on my hands I thought I would answer all your questions ( before I have yet another nap!).
Here we go.....
How long have you been practicing ttwd? What made you want to start it? What's your favourite implement and position?. How often do you get sent to the corner and how serious does it have to be for that to happen?
We have been ttwding for three and a half years now. I started it but only after FSOG came out and hubby said, there's a book for you... It gave me the courage to ask, and things went from there.
My favourite implement
His favourite implement
Favourite position is over the pillows at the end of the bed( squiggling about)
I have been in the corner only a couple of times, the first time was when I ordered him about during a dinner party, and after that it has been for his amusement. Secretly I quite like it, don't tell him.....
Where do you find the wonderful cat pictures?
What scares you most about about ttwd?
Are you a patient person?
I think what scares me the most is stopping it
Yes I am (probably. lol)
Have you ever had a disagreement or hurt feelings that has been resolved by a spanking? What about ttwd has bought you closer as a couple?
No, not really, our spankings always end in laughter and mostly start that way even if he is making a point.
Ttwd has made us focus on each other more for everything.
Do you and John talk about what he gets out of spanking, what is his reward?
He says it sets him up for the day, our day always gets off to a good start if it has started with a spanking, he says his reward is seeing me happy. (See why I love him?)
Do you desire more from ttwd?
Yes , sometimes, but life is all about compromise. He is not a dominant man by nature and I am grateful for every minute I have with him just as he is.
Since starting ttwd what change in you are you most proud of?
I do more for him
You are in charge of planning a romantic evening. What would you plan?
His favourite outfit, dinner and the Theatre...
If you could change one thing concerning how you and John practice ttwd, what would it be?
What is your most memorable moment about life with ttwd so far?
I think I would wish for him to be stricter, I get away with murder!
He laughed and said more implements when I asked him.
There are lots of moments I remember:
the first and very rare time I cried during a spanking, when he gives me the message when we are out, the time he swatted dil (as swatting has become an ingrained habit), forgetting myself and calling him my sir in front of the kids ( they are used to it now, don't bat an eyelid), dil number two finding out about the games we play, the first wallop of that wooden paddle, the cane, there are so many things that keep ttwd to the forefront of our lives.
Thank you all for your questions. I hope you are all having a lovely March,