Today is Love our Lurkers Day!
A big thanks to Hermione for organising this special event once again.
These two days are very special to all of us, as we would all like to welcome all of you to our little corners of the land and hope you come out to play , even just for a little teeny minute.
Is this you by any chance?
Oh I remember it well, that feeling of dare I press that button and say hello? Will anyone want me to?
Well I am here to tell you that yes we do want you to and yes you are brave enough. Come on , come on.
Need some more encouragement? Let me tell you about me and my little Blog. I have been a very happily married lady for thirty five years ( I imagine you can take a guess at my age without me spelling it out!)
Married life is super duper and has been enhanced greatly over the last five years since I plucked up courage and had the conversation with my beloved. Yes , you know the one. The, I really like spanking and would dearly like you to spank me, talk.
Once he had stopped looking like this
he gradually came on board with the idea. I mean he knew what sort of books I read so he can't have been that surprised can he, lol?
Gradually over the last few years we have found our own version of this thing we do. He is not into the more domestic discipline rules and regulations. For us it is a fun thing, a way to spice up our lives. We have without a doubt become so much closer, our lives are totally intertwined. Since starting our ttwd journey we have both retired and survived serious illness, bereavement, and very importantly the arrival of grandchildren into our lives.
I am not saying it is perfect. Is anything? Sometimes I wish he was more ..., well dominant. Still I suppose I could actually be a great submissive ( yes I could be, all my mates, will you please stop falling about with laughter. I am trying to tempt the newbies out).
If you read someone's blog and they say ttwd is easy, that they have the hang of it, make no mistakes.....
Don't believe a word of it! lol. It's jolly hard work. And that is the beauty of Blogland, everybody is willing to help, advice, support, ideas, listening. It is all out here once you just speak out. You know you want to.
Now seeing as you have stayed to join in our party today please feel free to ask me anything you want to.
I am going to kick off with a glass of bubbly so any minute now I will answer anything.
Let me ask my lurkers a question or two.
Are you in a spanking relationship? How's it going?
Or are you wanting to be and are trying to pluck up the courage for that important chat ?
Sorry it is the fizz that's got me so nosy, lol.
Now let's get to the spanky bit. I figure these pics will let you know how I feel about this lifestyle.
I guess you agree with that otherwise you wouldn't be here!
Hubby likes me in this position, I imagine he would like it even more if my posterior looked that that, sadly only in both our imaginations
Generally speaking this is how it is for us, he likes an excuse to spank, I like to give him an excuse.
there are times when he, oh how can I put it, ummm.....
He reins me in a bit, not often mind as really I have a cute little halo but now and again it slips a wee bit, I can be a teensy bit snippy , even snarly, and a
tad lot bossy and :(
That picture about sums it up. Makes my belly flip, the picture and the belt in his hands.
Oh and did I mention I am not a fan of wood, funny I know but for some reason wood doesn't appeal to me, especially a couple of my hubby's favourite possessions
Dreadful thingys, I am sure you agree. Do you have a favourite or dreaded implement?
Of course generally I am a good girl and that is my absolute favourite thing for him to call me and I do try .......
Well maybe this sort of good girl
Are you still here? I am so hoping you are and ready to say hello and tell me a little bit about yourself. Come and have a cup of tea or a glass of bubbly, you are always welcome here, anytime, any day.
Oh and don't forget to visit all my lovely friends, there is a list on my blogroll, just click on the name and hey presto there are more chums than you can shake a cane at. And some of them are really great authors too. In my experience I can say that advice flows freely out here, just ask.....
Have a lovely day out here in the land
love Jan, xxx