Here are a few more answers to questions from PK, Meredith and Lindy.
Do you have a spanking that really stands out in your mind above all others?
Yes I do. Fairly early on we had a disastrous one. We were not so experienced as we are now and I cannot remember what triggered it but we had obviously been disagreeing about something. There had been no spanking about whatever it was and it was late at night and we were in bed unable to sleep. I said something that hubby misunderstood. It was nothing to do with spanking or ttwd but he suddenly got out of bed and ordered me over the pillows. I was half asleep and not really sure what had caused such a reaction.
He didn't back down though and I did eventually get into position.
At this point I felt this was an unfair spanking and vowed to show no reaction at all. he spanked and I lay there like a stone until he finally realised he was getting nowhere. He stopped , I huffed back to bed in silence and eventually went to sleep.
The next day we discussed it all and realised it had all been a giant misunderstanding. Took a while to get our groove back. I did blog about it at the time and thankfully it has never been quite that bad since.
Do you ever have spanking's that end in delicious laughter?
YES we do, most of the time that is what happens here, lots of giggling from start to finish .
Happy spankings are the norm. I hope they are for everyone.
Last for today is my dear friend Lindy.
What is the best part of ttwd for you? If you knew about it at the start of your marriage would you have started it then?What else do you like to do with John now he is retired?
The best part of twwd is the way it encourages us to spend more time and energy on each other. It is automatic now to concentrate on each other. I feel softer somehow when I am in ttwd mode.
I don't think we would have started it in the early days. I don't think either of us would have had the confidence in ourselves. Also we live in a small house and spanking when the kids were about would not have been possible and when they were little we never left them with anyone else. Also hubby worked long hours, it would have been unrealistic to expect him to come home and deal with ttwd on top of it.
Since he has retired I suppose I should say we like traveling and seeing the world, but in reality I am not keen. I just like pottering about doing the day to day stuff that we have done alone for all our working lives and can now do together. We do go out for plenty of days out and we spend a lot of time visiting the Grandbaby and her entourage.
We have been away with friends, and we have been away alone a few times. Also we have spent a lot of time on the house, ( and money !). It is lovely being able to just get up and do what we fancy, at the moment I am planning a new kitchen :)
That's it for today, still have Cat, Ronnie and EL's questions to do.....
Hope you all have a great weekend,